Wednesday, July 22, 2026

Try Something NEW??


So, earlier today I was going to record a video to put on my new Skool Community ("Finish What You Start!") that is linked down below and found that, once I got ready to do so, I could actually do a "LIVE" version. 

I thought that was great and, even though I'd done live steam videos on other platforms but never on Skool, I figured that I could figure it out. But, guess what? I couldn't! At least NOT YET!

And I will.

Now, this is just a very small example of what, for many, is a much bigger problem that often keeps us stuck where we are and afraid to step out and move forward. 

Ready or not, we live in a very fast-paced evolution of technology that can (if learned to be used correctly) make things so much easier for us (you and me) than was possible just a very short time ago.

But, will you step out and "try something new"?

Or, will you simply say, "I can't" or "I don't know how" and allow this new technology to pass you by?

It all goes back to what we have been talking about for the past couple of months talking about the decisions (aka, "VOTES") that we make each and every day and facing the fears that hold us back.

So, it all depends on your DECISION as to what it is you truly want for your future. Yep! It's up to you but I am here to help along the way, if you'd like. (THE great reason to join me in my new Skool Community listed below).

And, as always..."Make it an AWESOME day! (Who else is going to do it for you?)"
 
Mike
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Monday, July 20, 2026

FINISH WHAT YOU START (Join My Skool Community!)

BE SURE TO JUMP IN AND JOIN MY NEW COMMUNITY ON SKOOL!

 My guess is that anyone that reads this article has gone through the whole "New Year's Resolution" fiasco more than once. Am I right? You know what I mean...making BIG plans and maybe even declaring them OUT LOUD to a friend or even a group of people only to give up and never see those plans through.

As a matter of fact, data has been gathered that indicates THE date that marks when most people have done just that and, guess what? It's called, "Quitters Day" and, believe it or not, it is on January 19th.

Nineteen days??!!?? Wow! 

Many times we "laugh it off" and think nothing about it but...can I talk to you as a person? Can you (and WILL you) allow yourself to be totally honest with yourself on this? Here we go: Even though you may have "laughed it off" in the past, is there a part of you that realizes that you've allowed this to become bigger of a problem along the way and you understand that it is actually holding you back from a better future?

Often, in the past, I've stated that DAILY RESOLUTIONS are much more valuable than "New Year's Resolutions, and I still believe that 100%. It's a whole lot easier to make needed corrections on a daily basis than it is at the end of a calendar year.

So, bottom line, that's what my new community on Skool is all about. If you've been reading and/or listening to my recent episodes then you know that I've discussed the importance of taking a good look at the people that we spend most of our time with and really considering the impact of those relationships.

You've likely heard, many times, the idea of "You are most like the 5 people with which you spend most of your time".  I've mentioned that, you don't necessarily have to completely separate yourself from these people BUT you need to start connecting with those that will actually encourage you and cheer you on and NOT criticize you or make fun of you because you want to improve your life. 

Don't misunderstand the purpose of this community. It is NOT a place for a bunch of people to come together and whine. Nope! Not at all. But, it IS a place that will challenge you to step up and step out in making decisions for your future and then following through. YES, you WILL stumble and YES you will "fall" from time to time and that is where this group will be so helpful and encouraging.  

Step up and join and introduce yourself. Once you do, I will personally welcome you into the group and connect with you. I will continue to share positive information like this with you but will also be offering different ways to "zone in" and "focus" on some specific "next steps" that WILL HELP YOU MOVE FORWARD TO SUCCESS in the area that you pursue.  

Are you ready? If not, why not? Isn't it time to put away the excuses (usually disguised with what we like to call "reasons") and finally decide that it's time to actually FOLLOW THROUGH and "Finish What You Start"? 

Click on the link below and I look forward to meeting you there! 

And, as always..."Make it an AWESOME day! (Who else is going to do it for you?)"
 
Mike
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Saturday, July 18, 2026

Think BIG!

                                           

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This is a fairly long read and I hope you find it interesting and informative. I wanted to share it so that you can get the whole "background" to what you find in the last 3 lines. THINK BIG! 
 
Buc-ee's marketing budget is almost entirely billboards, and most of them are bathroom jokes. 'Only 262 Miles to Buc-ee's. You Can Hold It.' A company convinced millions of families to drive past hundreds of gas stations using toilet humor. It worked because the promise behind the joke was real.
Buc-ee's sells gas so cheap that a competitor sued them for it.
 
In 2019, a new Buc-ee's in Alabama priced regular gas at $1.79 a gallon. The wholesale cost was around $1.90. They were selling fuel below what it cost them, and a rival gas station took them to court over it.
 
Most people would look at that and see a gas station losing money on gas.
Buc-ee's isn't a gas station. The gas is the bait.
 
The founder has said it himself. Roughly two-thirds of Buc-ee's revenue comes from inside the store. Food, snacks, and merchandise. Only one-third comes from fuel.
 
At a normal gas station, those numbers are flipped. 
The average convenience store in America does about $5.5 million a year. The average Buc-ee's does around $57 million. Per location. Roughly 10x the industry standard.
 
Arch Aplin III grew up in Texas in an entrepreneurial family. His father built homes. His grandparents, Arch and Mae, had run a gas station and country store in Harrisonburg, Louisiana since the 1920s.
Young Arch worked summers there. They wouldn't let him touch the cash register. Too young. So he pumped gas.
 
His mother nicknamed him "Beaver" after Bucky Beaver, the old toothpaste mascot. The name stuck for life.
 
He went to Texas A&M and earned a construction degree in 1980. He figured he'd build skyscrapers.
Instead, in 1982, at 24 years old, he borrowed $250,000 from a bank president he had befriended and built a 3,000 square foot convenience store in his hometown of Lake Jackson, Texas.
He named it after himself and his childhood dog, Buck. Buc-ee's. The logo was a cartoon beaver in a red cap.
 
The store had brass ceiling fans and cedar paneling, which was unheard of in an industry built on grime and fluorescent lighting.
And Aplin opened with two non-negotiable promises.
Cheap ice. And clean bathrooms.
 
That was the entire strategy. Two things every road traveler in Texas wanted and no gas station in America bothered to deliver.
Those two trivial-sounding promises became the foundation of a company now estimated to generate $3 to $5 billion a year.
 
Every gas station owner in the country treated restrooms as a cost. A nuisance. The thing you needed a key attached to a hubcap to access.
Aplin treated the restroom as the product. He realized the traveling public would drive farther, past cheaper and closer options, for the promise of a spotless bathroom. 
So he splurged on them. Buc-ee's staffs dedicated team members whose entire job is keeping the restrooms immaculate at all hours.
 
When the New Braunfels location opened in 2012, it had 84 gleaming toilets, each with its own hand sanitizer dispenser. Those bathrooms became a finalist in Cintas' national America's Best Restroom contest, the only retailer to make the cut.
 
A gas station chain won a national award for its toilets. On purpose.
And then they built the entire marketing strategy around it.
 
Buc-ee's spends almost nothing on TV or digital ads. The marketing budget goes to billboards. Hundreds of them, stretching across highways for hundreds of miles, almost all of them jokes.
"Only 262 Miles to Buc-ee's. You Can Hold It."
"Restrooms So Clean We Leave Mints In the Urinals."
"The Top Two Reasons to Stop at Buc-ee's: #1 and #2."
 
They turned toilets into a tourist attraction. Families in minivans full of kids see those signs and the decision is made two hours before the exit ever appears.
 
Then in the early 2000s, Buc-ee's opened its oversized flagship in Luling, Texas, along one of the busiest highway corridors in the state. And Aplin made a decision that separated Buc-ee's from every other travel stop in America.
No semi-trucks allowed.
Every other big fuel stop in the country chased trucker volume. Aplin banned them. No 18-wheelers meant no rough truck stop atmosphere. Buc-ee's would be for families.
 
Freed from being a truck stop, the stores just kept growing. The Luling location now measures 75,593 square feet, the largest convenience store on the planet. That's an official world record. Buc-ee's holds a second one too, for the world's longest car wash, a 255 foot monster in Katy, Texas.
Inside these buildings, the "convenience store" concept dissolves completely.
 
Walls of fresh brisket sandwiches carved in front of you. Kolaches. Eighteen kinds of homemade fudge. An entire wall of jerky. And Beaver Nuggets, the caramel-coated corn puffs that people now buy in bulk and resell online.
 
Buc-ee's also refuses to sell its products online. If you want Beaver Nuggets, you drive to Buc-ee's. The scarcity is the point.
 
The cartoon beaver appears on over 1,000 different products. Shirts, hats, swimsuits, toys, ornaments, pajamas. Families pose for photos with the giant beaver statue out front like it's a theme park character. The merchandise is largely private label, which pushes gross margins to roughly 40%, well above the industry's 31 to 37%.
That's the Trader Joe's playbook
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The gas is priced 10 to 30 cents below every station around it, sometimes below cost. One Colorado location alone draws roughly 8,000 cars a day.
Cheap fuel gets them off the exit. Clean bathrooms get them out of the car. The brisket, the fudge, the nuggets, and the beaver merchandise get them to the register with a full basket.
 
In 2024, 80% of Buc-ee's customers rated their experience as excellent. People don't just stop at Buc-ee's. They plan road trips around it. They pull over with a full tank.
 
Aplin, now in his 60s, still personally selects every new location and shows up to every groundbreaking. More than 50 locations across at least nine states, with new states opening constantly. When asked how many stores he has, he answers: "I'm not in this for a number. We're just having fun."
 
44 years ago, a kid who wasn't allowed to touch the register at his grandparents' gas station looked at the dirtiest, most miserable category in American retail and asked one question.
What if the pit stop was the destination?
Everyone else competed on gas prices and location. He competed on brisket, a cartoon beaver, and the cleanest toilets in America.
 
That's not a gas station.
That's a destination retail empire that happens to sell fuel.
 
The most ignored detail in your industry might be the entire opportunity. What's the "clean bathroom" nobody in your market is willing to invest in?
Think Big
 

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Friday, July 17, 2026

STOP Complaining - START Solving!

This is an original post (new for this date in July of 2026) that is based off of a graphic that I put together several years ago. Many times I will put thoughts that go through my mind down in a file of other quotes that I have and/or make a graphic of the quote and save it on my computer. This is one of those times. 

I don't remember exactly what was going on at the time or what spurred me to come up with this thought but, even if I don't remember the specifics, it  speaks "loud and clear" to me even today. 

                     

"I must CHANGE my thinking! When I see a problem, I MUST stop complaining. Instead, I must develop a solution and put it into ACTION!"                      

I think that you would agree with me when I say that it is EASY to find SOMETHING about which to complain...right? For some, it's like a favorite pastime and, if you spend enough time around them it may seem as if that is about all that they do!

And, if (more like "SINCE") complaining is such an easy thing to do then, on the other side of the equation, to be someone that DOESN'T complain about everything so quickly would make you someone that is "different" in a positive way...right?  

For most of us, we need to pay close attention to what everyone else is doing and DO THE OPPOSITE! Especially when it's something as negative as complaining all of the time. What, of necessity, does that mean? It means that we will have a positive impact on our OWN mindset by focusing on POSITIVE thoughts and ideas instead of the negative AND we will also have a positive impact on those around us.

And, in case you don't know it, people want MORE of the person that is POSITIVE and LESS of the NEGATIVE person. It is a need and a necessity...especially if you are trying to improve your own mindset as well as have a positive impact on those around you.  

Oh, and something else to keep in mind: There have been many times in the past (and even happening right now, today) where people have taken those "things" that brings about the tendency to complain and have made millions of dollars by finding a solution. They found that THEY weren't the ONLY ones that were complaining about ____________ (fill in the blank), which represented a PROBLEM and they came up with the SOLUTION. 

That quote that I came up with that is shown up there? Just even on a day to day basis - for me - that thought helps me simply change the way I think about things that are easy to complain about. Instead, I begin to think about what I can do to change or remove that situation. And, sometimes...it is as simply as not putting myself in the position to where I'm around whatever it is that causes me to complain in the first place!

What about YOU?  

Make a list (remember...WRITE IT DOWN) of the things that you find you complain about a lot) and then brainstorm how you can CHANGE YOUR THINKING and begin to look for a SOLUTION to prevent that from being a part of your life.

Hey, it's YOUR list so don't worry about what anyone else might think about it. 

Is there something you can do to help IMPROVE the situation? (By the way, complaining to someone by saying, "You need to do this differently!" and not actually being a part of the solution doesn't accomplish much!) Is there something you MUST do to remove that negative situation in and for your life? 

Finally, maybe look at it in a way that could cause you to see if you can come up with a solution that would benefit many people in a way that you could actually build a business around it...instead of just continuing to complain about it.

And, as always..."Make it an AWESOME day! (Who else is going to do it for you?)"
 
Mike

 

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Wednesday, July 15, 2026

Xcelerate Your Efforts! (Part 2 - The Mastermind)

 

(This article first appeared in December of 2009. It has been edited and updated)


In today's article I want to really encourage each of you to "brainstorm" ideas on how YOU can accelerate your efforts on your way to reaching your goals and dreams!
 
It's always nice (and easy) when someone points out specific things for us to do but, sometimes - if we are not careful - we get dependent on such things and fail to make any moves unless someone tells us to do so specifically. If we follow such a path, that path will never lead us to success.
 
Why? Because it is not YOUR path! We must all understand that suggestions and guidelines are just that ---- SUGGESTIONS and GUIDELINES! Get the point? They are suggestions for us to consider and apply to our own situations. Guidelines are the same way.
 
So, yes, take them into consideration and adapt them to your own situation, personality and plans --- but YOU must follow the path to YOUR dreams!
 
So (may I get blunt here?) - don't get lazy! THINK, DREAM and PLAN!
 
If you go back to the classic book, "Think & Grow Rich" by Napoleon Hill, you will find that he talks several times about the importance of a "Mastermind Group". This is a group of like-minded people that get together to share their thoughts and to brainstorm together.
 
This is one way to LEVERAGE yourself - as we talked about in the last podcast and blog. When you get open minds together and they begin to share ideas without fear -- great things can happen! Instead of YOU thinking alone and trying to come up with ideas, etc. you have the benefit of OTHERS doing the same with you -- this is LEVERAGE! It's how you are able to "Xcelerate Your Efforts".
 
Mel Robbins, in a November 2009 article in Success magazine also discussed another way that I believe is a way to accelerate our efforts. In this particular article she discussed how she is open and aware to everyone around her and how she greets and talks to all of these people. From the moment that she drives into the parking garage at her work all the way through her day she talks to each of these people.  
She is "accelerating" her efforts by including these people in her life and by being genuinely interested in their lives and what is going on in their lives. She is also using the principle of leverage!
 
Anytime that you expand your circle of contacts and influence, you have accelerated your efforts and have put the principle of leverage into place.
 
Here's a promise - you will NEVER go wrong by opening your life up with others in this way. We ALL need people! This is not talking about "using" people just so you can get ahead....but, again, being genuinely interested in others. This will always come back to you in powerful ways, wouldn't you agree?
 
So, get with a group of like-minded people (your own "Mastermind Group") and begin to share thoughts and brainstorm. The energy that is shared and released will lift you up and encourage you (as well as all the others involved) to keep moving toward your goals and dreams. Ideas and thoughts will be shared that you may have never even thought about as well as having thoughts coming to mind simply due to the shared energy of the group.
 
YES, YOU CAN accelerate your efforts and put the principle of leverage to work in your life!
 
This can be one of the most exciting things that you have ever experienced in this journey -- check it out and see if this is not true for you. 
 
And, as always..."Make it an AWESOME day! (Who else is going to do it for you?)"
 
 
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Monday, July 13, 2026

Xcelerate Your Efforts!

This podcast was first published on December 9, 2009. It has been edited and updated.

 

Yes, I know that the actual word is, "accelerate". But, at the time of this original posting, I was going through the alphabet for my blog article titles and, how many words do you know - that can be used in our "positive alphabet" start with the letter "X"? Xactly!

Dictionary.com defines the word "accelerate" in the following ways:

verb (used with object) 1. to cause faster or greater activity, development, progress, advancement, etc., 2. to hasten the occurrence of 3. Mechanics. to change the velocity of (a body) or the rate of (motion); cause to undergo acceleration.
4. to reduce the time required for (a course of study) by intensifying the work, eliminating detail, etc.
verb (used without object) 5. to move or go faster; increase in speed.
6. to progress or develop faster.

Now...let's clarify something with this definition - "to cause greater or faster activity" may be part of the definition of the word, "accelerate" but it is NOT what we are talking about in today's blog entry -- UNLESS that greater/faster activity is leading to results! You see, many times we can busy ourselves with activity and be making no progress at all. You know what I'm talking about. I've done it and you've done it. No one needs to explain that to you - you knew what was going on while you were doing it, right?
 
So, instead, let's look at definition 6 - "to progress or develop faster" - as a better definition of what I'm talking about today.
You know the problem, right? We talk, we plan, we talk, we plan some more, we plan and then we talk....get the picture? But, what's missing in this picture? DOING! ACTION!
 
Again, I'm NOT talking about moving without proper planning and preparation - but, sooner or later you have to MOVE into action!
 
Those of you that have kids, let me ask you this question: If you had waited until you could have AFFORDED to have kids - would you even have them today? Probably not!
 
You see, we cannot wait for everything to be in perfect alignment before we begin to make our move and take action toward the realization of our dreams, goals and desires.
 
The one main thing to keep in mind is the idea of "leverage". Now, to understand leverage you can consider many different examples.
   Example 1: the use of a lever to gain leverage - A lever is designed so that you can get more out of less. Less exertion on your part (due to the lever) is able to exert a greater amount of energy on the object. So, you are able to produce more with less.
   Example 2: the idea of using leverage in working. A teenage boy mows lawns for the summer. He does quite well and realizes that he has made good money doing this job. However, he realizes that he can only do 4 yards a day (if he is able to maintain his energy enough to do that and if the weather permits) X $30 per yard for a potential total of $120 per day. 
 
Not bad. IF the weather works in his favor and IF he can keep his energy up and IF he doesn't get sick. And, there are many more "ifs" to consider. He realizes that by getting other teens to work with him that he can get more business, more yards mowed and more money coming in. 
Yes, he knows that he must pay the largest percentage to the guy doing the mowing, yet HE can also get a part of each yard mowed for himself. MORE opportunity for MORE money with LESS work from himself - the very idea behind leverage. 
He still decides to mow 2 yards a day ($60) but he also has 8 other teens mowing yards and he is getting $5 per yard from each of those for an additional $40, which adds up to $100 per day. You may say, "Wait a minute, he's making $20 per day less!" Yes, he is, but he can also take the afternoon off and go swimming if he'd like OR he can mow one more yard OR he can involve a few more guys -- the leverage gives him CHOICE.
 
What can YOU do to leverage your efforts and, in so doing, "Xcelerate" your efforts?
 
Be thinking about that and be sure to listen to the podcast that goes along with this article (links below).
 
But, until then - BRAINSTORM for yourself and see what ideas YOU can come up with for yourself! After all, that's what this is about --- YOU and YOUR goals and dreams, right?
 

You can do it and I am here to help! Keep moving, keep growing, keep dreaming, keep improving your life and....all along the way, never forget to...

"Make it an AWESOME day! (Who else is going to do it for you?)"

Mike

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Wednesday, July 8, 2026

Want It MORE!

 

(This article first appeared on December 1, 2009. It has been edited and updated)

Obviously, when we use the word, "it" in today's title we are referring to your goals and dreams. Another way to approach this topic is to use the question that I've poised before, "What Are YOUR Dreams Worth?"

Are you afraid to move forward? Does the uncertainty of "being your own boss" or "doing your own thing" paralyze you with FEAR and keep you from making progress toward your goals and dreams?

Here's what you have to ask yourself: Which do you want more? The future that you have visualized and that you desire OR to stay where you are and remain there for the rest of your life - IF you're lucky enough to keep your job?

How bad do you want success? Yes, again, let me emphasize that "success" can mean a lot of different things to a lot of different people - but we're talking about YOU and YOUR definition/idea of success in your own life! Don't worry about other people's definition and desire for success --- we're talking about YOU! How bad do you want it? What's it worth to you?

Do you want it bad enough to...

--> Keep going even when you get discouraged?

--> Keep going even when you are afraid of the unknown?

--> Keep going even when you come up against a road block?

-->Keep going even when there is no one there to cheer you on?

--> Keep going when some around you even try to discourage you from moving on with your goals and dreams?

Bottom line, do you want it bad enough to KEEP GOING?

Many people are afraid to take the risk of dreaming. However, you must decide if the risk is worth the reward? We all should be more afraid of NOT moving foward and of NOT improving our lives.

The EASY thing to do is to do NOTHING!

Yet, I want to suggest to you that there is no such thing as "doing nothing".

When you think you are doing NOTHING, you are doing SOMETHING! Notice this...

By DOING NOTHING, you are...

--> Surrendering to fear

--> Giving up on your dreams

--> Taking a step BACKWARDS (you will move one way or the other!)

--> Taking the lazy man's way out

--> Allowing others to control your destiny (and that is NOT your destiny!)

So, you see - there is no such thing as "doing nothing" - we are either moving FORWARD and making PROGRESS or we are sliding BACKWARDS and losing ground every single day.

Which do YOU want more?

No one can answer that and no one can decide that but you! It is YOUR choice - and it IS a choice!

I want to challenge you - encourage you - to want SUCCESS and MOVING FORWARD more than you want to maintain the status quo.

You can do it and I am here to help! Keep moving, keep growing, keep dreaming, keep improving your life and....all along the way, never forget to...

"Make it an AWESOME day! (Who else is going to do it for you?)"

Mike

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Monday, July 6, 2026

WRITE IT DOWN!

 

Is it IMPORTANT to write things down?

It really depends on how important it is/for YOU, right?  But, specifically, in the area of "personal development" or "positive mindset" and with the idea of DOING what needs to be done in order to make POSITIVE IMPROVEMENTS in and for your life...YES, it IS important to write some things down!

You'll pick these up that I'll be talking about in this article better by going and listening and/or watching this episode by going to my podcast or YouTube videos (all links are listed below) because, in them, I actually suggest on some things to...guess what? WRITE THEM DOWN! 

So, first and foremost, here's what I'm going to suggest that you get out a piece of paper or a notebook  and write down: 

 1. DO YOU WANT TO MAKE YOUR LIFE BETTER or are you SATISFIED WHERE YOU ARE? Write down the question and write down your HONEST answer to that question. Do you truly DESIRE to make that improvement or do you just like to TALK about it? (Go back and re-read some of the previous articles that talk about these things and the importance of what happens when you actually "DECIDE".)

2. WHAT DO YOU WANT YOUR LIFE TO LOOK LIKE 1 YEAR FROM TODAY?  Get very specific on this. One "easy" way to do it is to write down what it is about your life that you DON'T like right now and then across from that, write down how you'd like that to be different.                                 For example: Starting on the left margin write: I'm tired of having nothing left at the end of the month after paying my bills" ----(then, to the right of this write something like) I want to be able to pay ALL my bills each month and have $1,000 left over (whatever amount YOU desire).

3. CAN I GET THERE IN 1 YEAR CONTINUING TO DO WHAT I'M DOING RIGHT NOW? If your answer is "yes' then you need to write down, specifically, why you're in the situation that you're in right now if you could keep doing that same thing and have that kind of improvement in 1 year.  If your is that, "no", you CAN'T keep doing the same thing and expect change then you MUST write down the next one...

4. ARE THERE THINGS I CAN DO ON MY OWN TO BEGIN MAKING THE CHANGE NECESSARY? The answer is likely, "Yes" on that part and then you need to right down those things that YOU CAN DO and begin doing them right away!                                                                                     Now then, write the things down that you know you CAN'T do and that you will admit that you need help with. 

Now, I'm going to stop on my end making suggestions on what you need to write down because, honestly, these first 4 questions are the foundation of you actually moving forward or staying put where you are. 

You see, if we think we can keep doing the same thing we're doing now and get different results then, friend, you've just described what many call the definition of "insanity".

Go back and listen to the podcast or watch the videos on some of the previous discussions to hear MORE that will HELP YOU - if you're willing to listen and DO - begin the process of moving forward. 

Friend, I'm here to help YOU and I like doing that by providing step-by-step things that you can follow and do BUT, you must be willing to DO them yourself and FOR yourself and those important to you. 

Will you? That decision lies squarely on your shoulders but...remember this, you don't have to approach this on your own. That's why I do what I do...to help YOU in the process.

Will you join me? Let me hear from you because I have more things coming in the very near future that will do exactly - step by step - what we're talking about here but you must start NOW getting your mindset ready and prepared to start taking those necessary steps.  

As always, THANKS for joining me today and, please, share this with as many as possible and always be sure to keep moving forward, closer to your dream!

And, until next time, whatever you do,  be sure to...

"Make it an AWESOME day! (Who else is going to do it for you?)"

Mike
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Friday, July 3, 2026

Follow Those Who Do!

(This article first appeared in June of 2016. It has been edited and updated)

Those are some pretty powerful statements/challenges shown in the above graphic, right? We'll get to it in a few moments but, first, let me continue on with today's story that is continued from the story in the LAST blog. Got all of that?

If you haven't done so yet, be sure to go back and read the last blog article because today's article is DIRECTLY tied in to what took place with the situation that I discussed there. 

Picking up where I left off in the last article, Asher (my 3 year old grandson) had enjoyed an afternoon of being in a friend's pool last weekend when he and his sister, Em (4.5 years old) came for a visit to our house. He had done the same thing that his sister had done for much of the afternoon - he stayed really close to my wife, hanging on and not wanting to take a chance being away from the "safety" of hanging on. This was despite the fact that he was wearing a life jacket. 

I was busy with Em, helping her finally trust me to the point that she stopped clinging to me and started enjoying being able to splash around the pool and even move around a bit with her life jacket on and a "swim noodle" wrapped around her. And, she finally got rid of the swim noodle and enjoyed getting around with just her life jacket on. 

Asher had watched all of this and, once he saw his sister taking that step and seeing her enjoy the "freedom" that came with taking action based on her trust, he decided to do the same thing. 

He watched someone who was DOING (his sister) and decided that he, too, could do the same thing!

Hey, don't miss this important point: SOMEONE IS WATCHING YOU! That's a bit of a "side track note" from the main thing we'll be discussing today, but it is IMPORTANT for us to realize this fact in ANY area and EVERY area of our lives. 

Now I'll get back to the main focus of this article - in any area of your life in which you seek improvement, FOLLOW THOSE THAT ARE SUCCESSFUL. And, by the way, the only ones that are successful are those that "do" as opposed to those that "talk". 

I've discussed before about the decision that you will have to make in this process when you do this, which is: Are you willing to DO what they have DONE for the success that you seek?

In my example, Asher watched his sister Em SUCCESSFULLY let go of her fears, trust her "Poppa" and actively enjoy her time in the pool even more than she had been doing. She acted, he watched and then he, too, took action.

That's how it works, friend!

It's also important to be careful of who it is that you watch, observe, "copy" and follow! Again, only copy and follow those that DO and that DO so SUCCESSFULLY. 

Whether it is concerning parenting, your marriage or other relationships, your job and/or career as well as your goals and dreams - seek out those that have done it successfully and perhaps are STILL doing so. If possible, take advantage of the opportunity to visit those that are still around and "pick their brain" as to the "secret of their success". 

In the past (will probably revisit this again soon), I talked about learning from "Other People's Mistakes" and I called it "O.P.M Wisdom". In the same - but opposite - way, we can also learn from "Other People's Successes", which we would call "O.P.S Wisdom". 

So, who are YOU watching? Are you paying attention and even taking notice of those that are successful in whatever area it is that you seek success as well? 

Watch. Observe. And then copy those that DO. 
 
As always, THANKS for joining me today and, please, share this with as many as possible and always be sure to keep moving forward, closer to your dream!

And, until next time, whatever you do,  be sure to...

"Make it an AWESOME day! (Who else is going to do it for you?)"

Mike

 

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