"Remember this: the blind can easily lead the blind in a rut. Why? Because, again, a rut controls your path and direction. That's the very nature of a rut."
"Make it an AWESOME day! (Who else is going to do it for you?)"
Mike
"Your most important education takes place on the campus of your mind" This blog goes hand in hand with my podcasts to aid you in the process of keeping your mind FOCUSED on the POSITIVE that is all around us!
You know, if I could figure out a way to actually produce and market the items you see pictured above, I could rest easy knowing that I would NEVER have to worry about money again! (Be sure to listen to my "mock commercial" for these two amazing products on today's podcast).
But, you can look all you want - you won't find these products in any store, on any website or on any television "infomercial".
But wouldn't it be great if we COULD just go buy a can of this stuff and not have to worry about our tendencies to get into ruts ever again? Wouldn't it be great to also be able to spray some of this stuff on and not have to worry about falling BACK into ruts?
Even if it existed it still wouldn't do us any good until we got it out of the can. Just buying it and having it in our ownership would not do a thing for us in the way of "rut protection". I know you can agree on that fact, right?
Yet, how many of us - myself included at times - have "rut protection" in our ownership but fail to apply it (get it out of the can)?
What do I mean? Things like these blogs and podcasts along with the many others that exist out there by such greats as Jim Rohn (have you checked out his materials via the products tab on my website?). Things like the FREE access to success.com that I have mentioned over and over again as well as the opportunity to subscribe to the actual magazine. The many books, blogs and articles that are available to us that would help us get out of a rut and STAY out of a rut.
But, although they are available and we may even have some of these in our ownership or possession - many of us do nothing with them... we never "get it out of the can".
So, here we go again, right? It all comes back to YOU.
That's right. It's up to YOU to apply the "rut repellent" that is available to each and every one of us on a daily basis.
Jesus even stressed how important it was to DO something when He said something along the lines of, "But be DOERS and not just HEARERS...".
Good point!
So, yeah, make sure you READ! Make sure you LISTEN!
But, even more importantly - don't forget to DO SOMETHING with what you have acquired from your reading and listening.
Otherwise, you might as well leave the "rut repellent" on the store shelf - it will do you just as much good there as it will sitting on your own shelf unused.
Something to think about, isn't it?
One sure way to repel ruts is to do what I encourage you to do each and every day...
"Make it an AWESOME day! (Who else is going to do it for you?)"
Mike
"Rut-Butt", you ask?
Yes, "Rut-Butt" - that which needs to be KICKED in order for you to get your butt out of that rut! Catchy, right?
Yesterday I shared two different articles with you that gave some advice on what to do in order to get out of a rut. Both of them are very good and give a lot of wonderful advice! I really love the line (the bottom of page 2) in the article from askmen.com that says, "Stop training for the 100-meter dash and start training to be a long-distance runner if you want to get out of a rut."
Sometimes the fact that someone tells us that it's not going to be easy and/or (like the above quote) that it's not going to be an easy and/or quick fix might cause us to decide to stay where we are - in our "rut room". Hey, it's COMFORTABLE in our little "rut room".
WAKE UP!
Do you REALLY want to stay there? Do you REALLY feel that this is what your life is meant to be? Do you REALLY find peace, happiness and fulfillment there?
If you've got a pulse and the desire to LIVE and not just EXIST then your answer to those questions should be "NO!"
So, bottom line (this blog is going to be short - listen to the podcast) is this: isn't it time for you to get serious about this rut thing and get busy and KICK SOME RUT BUTT!
Only YOU can do it! Only YOU can decide that it's time to quit talking about it and that it's time to start "kickin' some rut butt" and taking names. (You didn't know that ruts have names? Sure they do - we give them all kinds of names - think about that and see if you can figure that one out).
So, begin by understanding and realizing that you are in a rut or have come up against a roadblock, figure out how/why you ended up here and then DO something to change it!
Go ahead. Stop waiting. Stop allowing yourself to be so "comfortable" in your "rut room" and begin the process of taking action TODAY!
Oh, and as you do that...
"Make it an AWESOME day! (Who else is going to do it for you?)"
Mike
"What's a 'rut room' " you ask? That's where you are if you decide that you don't want to do anything to get out of your rut!
Yeah, and it's pretty nice, too! I mean, you've got it all set up with all of the comforts of home because - after all - you plan to stay here for a while if not forever!
It's great. Kind of. Sort of. But not really.
Why?
Because you're there all alone in your "rut room". So you decide to throw a party to see what happens! Yeah, you decide to throw a "pity party" in your "rut room".
But, another problem - no one else comes to your "pity party".
Why? Because too many other people are already involved in their own pity party and, anyway, a pity party is usually celebrated alone!
Not so great after all, huh?
SO DO SOMETHING DIFFERENT!
GET OUT OF YOUR RUT AND STOP YOUR WHINING!
Yeah, I'm talking to myself here, too. Sometimes I even need to give myself a swift kick in the pants - even though I've not figured out a way to do that physically!
So, as a quick review let's take a quick look and see that - first and foremost - you have to understand that you are in a rut or that you've come up against a roadblock. But, even then, you still have a choice to make in that you can either just accept it and do nothing about it OR you can decide that you don't want to stay in that rut or that you will NOT allow that roadblock to prevent you from continuing on your journey!
What will it be for you?
Remember - the deeper the rut the harder it is and the more effort it takes to get out. The same is true for a roadblock - the bigger the roadblock, the longer it may take or the more effort it will take to remove it. Sometimes you just have to choose a different route and go around it!
SO DECIDE!
Do you want to stay in your "rut room" and keep throwing yourself your little "pity parties"?
OR are you sick of living this way to the point of understanding that, once and for all, it's time to DO SOMETHING to change your position?
This is not easy. Ruts are comfortable. Take another look around your "rut room". Comfortable.
But you know that this is no way to LIVE life! This is not really a LIFE at all - it is an existence.
How determined are you to get out of your rut? How determined are you to not allow that roadblock to keep you from making progress?
How great is your DESIRE in this area?
This will determine your success. Remember - it's not easy and it will not be accomplished on your first try. But, will you give up and give in?
NO YOU WILL NOT!
I mentioned an article from Success.com that I wanted to share with you about this very thing - how to get out of a rut! Here's the link for you to check it out:
http://www.successmagazine.com/1on1-break-out-of-a-rut/PARAMS/article/1065/channel/22
Be sure to take the time to read this - it's really good and goes along with what I am saying about ruts and out tendencies to stay in them.
Once again I find that what I am saying and thinking and sharing on these topics are backed up by others - like in the article above and the one I'm about to share with you.
Hey, this ol' boy DOES know what he's talking about - imagine that!
Here's another good article for you on how to get out of a rut - check it out:
http://www.askmen.com/money/body_and_mind_100/142_better_living.html
Tomorrow we will talk and discuss how great your determination and/or desire is for this to actually happen in your life and - just like with the above articles - we will discuss a few things that you can - and MUST - do in order to get yourself out of that rut or around that roadblock!
Until then - enjoy the articles and be sure to...
"Make it an AWESOME day! (Who else is going to do it for you?)"
Mike
How would you like to see THAT scene before you as you try to make progress on a trip? If you DID come across this then you would obviously have to make some alternative plans in order to continue on your journey.
This major roadblock was caused by a mudslide - something completely out of our hands. It wasn't anything YOU caused and there wasn't anything YOU could do to prevent it from happening. But it DID happen and, because of that, if you were on a journey and encountered this road block then you would have to make some decisions regardless of how and why it happened.
Does that ever happen to you in your life? You do understand that I'm not talking about a boulder blocking an actual highway, right? But has your life ever met up with some sort of roadblock that you had no way to control or prevent? What did you do?
Let's talk about ruts for a moment. A lot of you have HEARD about ruts but I wonder how many of you have ever actually encountered ruts while driving. It could be a rut that has been made on a snow-covered road or it could be a rut that has been carved out in a mud-packed road. Either way, ruts can cause problems for the one trying to navigate down such a road!
You can stay in a rut but you really aren't deciding which direction your automobile will go - you just stay in the rut and follow the same path as others before you. If you give just a little effort to get out of the rut you will not have much success! The deeper the rut the harder it is to get OUT of that rut!
Now, let's again apply that to our actual lives. Sometimes we get in a rut that we have carved out ourselves, don't we? We've just fallen into going through the same motions day in and day out until we have carved out a nice little rut for ourselves.
Living IN a rut is really pretty easy! After a while you don't really have to give much thought to what you are doing - just stay in the rut and do the same thing today that you did yesterday and the day before and the day before that!
Maybe you've fallen into a rut that someone else (or several someones) have carved out. You have fallen into this rut and have given in to the "path of least resistance". "Hey, this is not so bad! I just follow the crowd and don't do anything different and I can just glide right along!"
Not a bad way to live if you want to live life like a robot.
So, what if you realize that you are in a rut and you don't WANT to stay in that rut? What then?
Ruts and roadblocks - they happen to all of us.
I shared with you on today's podcast that I feel that I have faced a roadblock and that I am in a rut RIGHT NOW! I have acknowledged that even a couple of weeks ago but it seems that I'm still here staring at that roadblock and trying to look out and over that rut.
Wow. You too?
So, how did we get here? You see, to me, this is the second most important thing we can do as far as "ruts and roadblocks" go. First, we must realize we are there and it's not where we want to be and then we must try to figure out how we got here!
Sometimes, with the roadblocks - as the example shared above - it really has nothing to do with us, it just happened! That's the way life is sometimes! We can either sit there in despair and just give up OR we can plan an alternate route so that we can continue on our journey!
But, there are SOME roadblocks that we have placed before ourselves. How did THAT happen? It's very important for us to take a close look at this and try to "pin-point" exactly HOW it happened so that we can now do the "opposite" in order to "undo" the roadblock.
This ain't easy! (Pardon my southern slant on that line.)
Chances are - and chances are really good - that it didn't happen overnight (with the "we put it there" variety of roadblock). And, that being so, our "pin-pointing" won't happen overnight either. We'll get back to this in a moment and combine it with the "rut problem" as well.
How do you get out of a rut? WITH A LOT OF EFFORT!
Anyone that has encountered a physical rut - especially a deep one - can tell you that it takes MAJOR effort to get out of (and stay out of) a rut! Remember, the deeper the rut the harder it is to get out OF that rut!
How deep is your rut? Have you caught this before it got too deep or will you need some major climbing gear just to peek over the top of your rut?
The same is true for ruts as it is for roadblocks - we MUST figure out how we got here!
How do we do that with ruts and roadblocks?
THE PROCESS OF ELIMINATION.
What is DIFFERENT now than it was before?
Has the joy, energy and happiness been sucked from your life? Why? How? When did it happen?
Go back in time and try to "pin-point" a time when you actually felt the way you think you want to feel now. When were you happy? When did you feel as if you had positive and powerful energy in your life?
Take a snapshot if you will of "then" and one of "now" - what's different?
Go through a process of elimination with both the rut and the roadblock and try to determine what changed in your life in such a way that caused you to follow that path that led you to where you are today.
Take how ever long it takes to try to figure it out. Write down what you find as you go along. You likely will find SEVERAL things that have changed and not just one!
We are going to talk more about this tomorrow and also we will talk about what we do once we pin-point the problem.
But know this, friend - YOU CAN OVERCOME THIS and you CAN get out of your rut and you CAN get around, over or through that roadblock whether you caused it or life just dumped it there.
YES, YOU CAN!
Know that. Believe that. Feel that.
And, as you go through your day...
"Make it an AWESOME day! (Who else is going to do it for you?)"
Mike